Keeping In Touch

I love that saying, “Keep In Touch.”  Think of how many times you have said it.  Then, think of how many times you have followed through with that promise.  It is not easy to do.  We all get busy sometimes.  I have often heard people say that life got in the way.  What holds us back from keeping in touch with people that we have made a connection with?

This month I used the phrase, “Keep in touch” several times.  Yesterday, I had the opportunity to get together with friends who went through the San Diego Area Writing Project Summer Institute.  We wanted to meet and discuss what we learned during the institute.  And, we wanted to share how we would use our new learning in the classroom.  I had been looking forward to meeting with everyone, because I knew it would provide motivation for the start of the school year.  For  me, this is in less than two weeks!  I appreciated the energy that was generated at this meeting, and it reminded me of our work over the summer.  I feel blessed to know these people who are such knowledgeable educators.  The best part is knowing that it won’t be difficult to keep in touch with this group.  I am actually looking forward to meeting again once the school year has gotten underway.

Earlier in the month, I went to my 30 year high school reunion.  Yes, I said 30!!  I have to be honest and say that I have not kept in touch with many people from my high school years.  I have one good friend that I talk to and that is mainly because our daughters are best friends.  I ended up going to the reunion with this friend and her husband.  The reunion turned out to be fabulous.  It was fun seeing old friends that I hadn’t seen since the 20 year reunion.  It was harder recognizing some people this time around.  I spent a lot of time looking at name tags to help me remember who was who.  I am happy to say that time has been kind to many of us.  The interesting thing about the evening is that even though I hadn’t seen these people in 10 years, there was an ease in our conversations.  It was as if we were still back in high school chatting at lunch.  It really felt great to see everyone.

As we were leaving the reunion, everyone was hugging each other and promising to keep in touch.  Then they would ask, “Are you on Facebook?”  Unfortunately, I am not.  I do not know why I am resisting getting on this social network bandwagon.  I guess I’m not willing to invest any time into it.  But, if I am really serious about keeping in touch, I have a decision to make.  Should I or shouldn’t I get on Facebook?  In the past, I would strongly refuse.  However, now I am not completely closed off to the idea.  For now, I am happy being Facebook free.  If anyone wants to keep in touch they can find me on Twitter and Instagram.  Or, you can just pick up the phone and call me (if you have my number).  I think this is the best way to keep in touch.  Nothing beats real life interaction.